i was feeling shitty about my body then my Dearest came in and gave me a talking to (down South we call it a ‘come to jesus’) about body positivity and self love and the stupid patriarchy and now i feel a lot better.
yo this is how you make your partner feel better about themselves. none of that “well i think you’re beautiful that’s all that matters” crap, because that doesn’t help anyone.
it certainly didn’t help when my ex would respond with “then you should eat better and go to pilates more.” dumbass.
Today I got an email telling me my order from the sex shop had shipped.
Then another telling me my order from the condom shop shipped too.
TODAY WAS A GOOD DAY.
My new datefriend was supposed to come visit today but she’s ill. Boo.
So instead I’m having dinner with my Partner and metamour… presently drinking sweet tea with lemon because yeah, life handed me some lemons today. :/
Logging on to Facebook and finding another excruciatingly long message from your metamour ‘just making sure’ you weren’t angry at her when you mentioned the tiniest little criticism of the group you both work in.